After a stressful evening with a wired little boy, I feel the need to know I'm taking action / the best action. My DS1 (age 3) has 'social communication difficulties' (EP says "can't diagnose, but if you were reading up, look into Aspergers") and while we began the process what seems like a long 3 months ago, we have nothing but a date of an initial SALT assessment, and have had an EP assessment.
What should I be doing for him? And what can I do to:
- reduce frequency of violence still further?
- reduce defiant behaviour? (increase frequency of him doing as requested)?
- improve social interaction?
- improve toilet training / other self-help?
- improve willingness to do things?
He's a pretty able boy in many ways (delightful, intelligent, communicative, affectionate, happy, creative), and the frequency of me being at the end of my tether has reduced dramatically since the summer, but I still feel as if I'm trying to dress a cat.
Now we're in the system, should I continue waiting till he's had more assessments, or should I .. well, what? where do I start?