DS has always been so affectionate. His social abilities have always been his main strength. He was occasionally a bit 'rough' (esp. with his siblings) but that was mainly down to his lack of coordination.
Today his home/school book has a message in it to the effect of '..bad day today I'm afraid.. Alex has been kicking and punching/hurting other children and finding it funny.. has been in a awkward mood all day..'
We NEVER had any messages like this is YR.. but then he only started Epilim in June and I suppose the mildly aggressive behaviour has co-incided with him starting on that if I think about it. But it hasn't been a BIG problem at home.. we have been coping with it fairly well and it has has been lessening. His 1-1 said he did it a couple of weeks ago but we had words with him and it stopped.
I hate him coming home with such a negative message in his book when it's always been full of such positive feedback. I know she has to write it as it is.. and hurting other children is no small issue and needs dealing with.. but I am wondering whether she hasn't bonded with him like like year's 1-1.. or whether I am just being stupid about this.. I mean I can't expect him to just have one 1-1 his who school 'career' just because I like that particular one and know she likes Alex!
Alex has always been known for his sunny loving nature depsite his physical and learning difficulties.. and academically this year he has already been doing great things.. but now ( and I admit) I am panicking thinking that they will be telling me that mainstream is not working out after all.. etc etc. Not that special school would be a bad thing - we have always been prepared to play it by ear, but I really don't want him to have to leave due to aggressive behaviour.. not when he has been coping in mainstream in all other respects.
And I also admit that I keep thinking his old 1-1/teacher team could have handled this better.
Any wise words (please)?
SJ/CJ xx
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Is my lovely affectionate DS turning into an aggressive nightmare??!
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CreepyJess · 06/10/2005 18:06
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