Hello, my 10 week old DS is still waking up 3 times in the night to feed. He has occasionally gone 4 hours between feeds but usually its more like 2 or 3 hours. I haven't had more than 3 hours sleep in a row since he was born and I'm getting, on average, between 3 and 4 hours a night. I'm on my knees so any advice would be gratefully received.
DS is 15lb and, according to the books, physiologically ready to sleep 8 hours without feeding - but clearly he doesn't read the books...
Oh, and he is exclusively breastfed by the way - I have tried occasional bottles of formula but they haven't been the magic answer.
Last night he went down to sleep at about 8.15pm, woke up to feed at midnight for 25 mins, 2.30am for 20 mins, 4.50am for 30 mins and 6.30am ready to start the day What can I do to reduce the number of night feeds?
I'm considering the following:
- Trying again with a formula dreamfeed at 10.30pm.
- Trying with a breastfeed dreamfeed at 10.30pm.
- Trying to reduce the amount of time he feeds for at the midnight and 4am feeds and increase the amount of time at the 2.30am feed.
- Feeding him every 2 hours in the day even if he doesn't ask for it and cluster feeding him in the evening.
- Giving up breastfeeding altogether so that DH can share the night feeds. Not really considering this one in all seriousness yet, but I'm getting there...
Sorry this is so long...