DD is almost 2 and has never settled herself at night; she had appalling colic (or whatever) for many months from birth and until she was around 20 months it was usual for me to be up for at least an hour with her during the night - ie she's never developed good sleeping habits although now (fingers crossed!) she is usually sleeping 10 hours.
In the evening, she has her milk on my/DH's lap, then snuggles in with blanket and falls asleep in our arms - takes between 10 and 40 mins to do so.
We've half-heartedly tried various ideas to try to get her to go in her cot and then fall asleep, but bottom line is that as soon as she hits the mattress, she's up and crying for us; similarly if we do manage to get her in the cot when almost asleep, she'll be up and crying if we leave her side until she's asleep.
We're starting to think about when to move her into a bed but don't know if we should have a concerted effort now to get her to settle herself and then move her to a bed OR move her to a bed and then try something.
My concern in waiting until she's in a bed is that if we do try to go cold turkey, she'll be able to just get out of bed and come and find us (and I don't like the idea of having a gate on her room that she'd stand crying at); but I also don't want to go through the process now only to have to do it all again when we move her.
I'd really welcome some advice on this.
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sarahsmummy · 21/01/2009 22:32
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