Hi all. I'm not too sure this is the best place to post this but here goes.
I have two children DS (2.4) and DD (4mth). DS has always been a poor sleeper. He now sleeps about 11 hours a night with one waking when he comes and sleeps in a room with us. He wakes up between 5:30 and 6:30 no matter what time he goes to bed. However, he is constantly tired. He often almost drops off at about 4pm but if I let him then he is up for hours in the evening and gets less sleep over th 24hrs. He has big bags under his eyes and is obviously tired.
For the first two months I thought DD was different but she's now exhibiting all the signs of being over tired. She goes to sleep with DS in the evening but wakes screaming after 30mins and then screams until we bring her downstairs. She then settles about midnight and wakes acouple of times just for feeds. I usually wake her about 8 in the morning. However, she only naps for about an hour and a half in the day and now can't settle herself and is also showing signs of being overtired.
I feel like a shit mum. My children are tired and I can't seem to help them. Whatever I do seems to be wrong and now I have fucked up another baby. Clearly I'm very tired too and I'm sure this is affecting my judgement. People think I'm upset about their sleeping for me but really it's because they're both so tired and I cna't make it better.
Very ramblling - sorry. I just don't know where to go for help.
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Skimty · 21/01/2009 21:53
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