Sorry if this is long, DS is nearly 14 weeks. Me and dp were wanting to be in vague routine by now but we've been fairly relaxed about it and as a result not really in one and now not sure where we should go from here. At present bubba goes down at about midnight, sleeps thru till between 6 and 7, has a bottle, then back down until 9ish. Selfishly this is great, we get sleep, can go out with him in evening (often at our families) and he is a happy little soul. However, ideally we would like him to go down bit earlier so we can regain an evening and also feeling quite pressured from his family - dont get me wrong they are lovely and have best interests at heart but SIL's kids slept thru 13 hours from 6 weeks (but fed 8oz every 2-3 hours during the day) and MIL thinks we should be giving spoonful of baby rice as he 'should be going through the night by now'. Apparently last bottle is just 'habit'.DS has never been huge sleeper, cant imagine him sleeping 12 hours and has only ever napped in daytime. I'm reluctant to have screaming episodes at 2am but am under instructions to just give dummy or last resort water but he doesnt eat tons in the day (5oz bottles every 3-4 hours which he doenst always finish) so dont think its enough to see him though the night. Lastly I've been getting recurring infections from the birth and am now on very strong medication, which is no biggie but need decent sleep to recuperate. Please help, should I be doing 'earlier' and just persevere or leave it as it is??? Many thanks.
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lionsandtigersandbears · 05/12/2008 17:25
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