I'm cosleeping with ds who is 27 months and due to have another baby in November. Ds usually stirs a couple of times a night to check that I am there or to ask for a hug. If I'm not there or if he catches me getting out of bed he can get quite upset. Sometimes dh can calm him, but sometimes he insists on me. Now I'm worried what will happen when dc2 comes along. I'm worried that ds will be distressed or angry if I'm wandering up and down the house all night with the baby.
I suggested to dh that ds should start sleeping on his side of the bed, to get more used to being with him than me. He wasn't very keen (although I think I can talk him round - he was just a bit grumpy this evening) and said we should put ds in his own room. I can't see this working at the moment without cc, which I'm not going to do and I really don't want to get up at night.
So, I'm looking for suggestions. I don't think I want to cosleep with a newborn, but does having 2 in bed help? Does it mean you don't end up walking the halls (I only started cosleeping with ds when he was 9 months)? Any other ways of dealing with it? I'd appreciate any experiences...
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tryingtoleave · 07/09/2008 13:04
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