Before LO was born I was adament that she would be in her own crib and (stupidly) thought that after a feed she could be winded and go to sleep. HA!
She is now 16 weeks (was 9 weeks prem so 7 weeks corrected age) and is cluster feeding from 4pm/5pm til 10pm then sleeps til 11 or 12pm feeds then sometimes goes in her crib and sleeps til 2am or 3am (but could be just til 1am and doesn't always settle in her crib so ends up in with me) when she wakes for a feed Then there is little chance of her going back in her cribs because she
- Cries and cries and cries
- is sick everywhere - is a sickly baby
The easiest thing to do particularly in my sleep deprived state is to let her fall asleep on my chest in bed with a blanket over her.
However I'm not sleeping cos I'm worried about SIDS - she is still under 6lb so really tiny to have in bed with me.
I know I can't do the crying out method yet and TBH don't think I ever will be able to...and cos she is sick so much putting her down in the middle of the night often means changing her and the sheets loads ( ie 3 times in 20 min the other night)
Am I being a bad mum? Am I making a massive rod for myself?
People have told me that you can't 'spoil a baby' until it is 6mths old but she seems to be getting used to going to sleep on/with me and I'm sooo knackered.
If I'm not 'spoiling her' how do I cope wioth this lack of sleep?
Bit ramble-y sorry! but please help me