Hi everyone. Ds is 8 mths. Was able to settle self to sleep until 4wks old when developed colic. Unfortunately we got into v bad habits to get him to sleep so as not to wake DS1 who'd just started school - ie driving round in car at 11pm at night, DH walking round the block with him in pram whilst I put older son to bed..At moment he's basically bf'ing self to sleep on my lap at night. Tried putting him down in cot/pram(which worked with older son a treat, at first anyway !!) but he wakes immediately and can't be comforted back to sleep, also tried bf'ing him in our bed but wakes after 10 mins with a jolt. Currently sleeping in bed downstairs with him as he wakes frequently if co sleeps with both of us and wakes 5- 6 times a night for a feed. I'm going back to work in 6 wks and will be expected to work nights some of time. I know very soon we will have to go down controlled crying route again as obviously dh won't be able to use bf'ing method ! (tried it 2 wks ago but sprouted 4 teeth at once so had to stop 1/2 way through.)Was partially successful in that slept for 30 mins in cot for 1st time in 7 mths !! Unfortunately he is just not eating enough during day. Have had to do baby led weaning with fingerfood as he's just not interested in spoon feeding/purees. Most of food ends up on floor plus he's very reluctant to sit in high chair for longer than 5 mins. Ds1 was on 3 good meals a day by this point so I felt more confident about sleep training, knowing he probably wasn't hungry at night. I am mid way through weaning him off breast during day - has 1 bottle formula mid afternoon.Just wondered if anyone could give advise or reassurance.Felt so much more confident with 2nd child at first but now it's just all gone to pot. Thanks Louise.
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