Hello all, thanks in advance for reading.
My DH and I have co-slept with DS since he was born. We started in a double bed, then, as DS got bigger and wigglier (around 4 months), we got a queen sized bed. Now DS is 9 months and it seems that even such a large bed is not large enough for DS, DH and myself, so DH has quite graciously been sleeping in the lounge on the couch (we are not worried about DH, he has insisted that he feels no resentment about this arrangement, and that he's quite happy to continue to do so until DS starts sleeping more soundly through the night).
So DS and I are in a queen sized bed and because he rolls around so much I am relegated to the far edge depending on which side I am feeding from; sometimes he still rolls over onto me and seems to wake himself up.
Here's my question: First, have any other co-sleepers had this experience during the same age, and did it pass? DS is teething really badly with his seventh and eight teeth, so this is part of the unsettled-ness.
Second, might DS and I both get more sleep if DS is moved to his own cot? At the moment I wake up probably 5-6 times through the night, but most of those times are for very short periods just to give DS a boob or comfort him. Probably at the most once a night I have to pick him up and rock him then settle him back into our bed. If he is in a cot, won't I have to settle him completely each time he wakes before he'll let me put him back down?
NOTE: I am not willing to try any kind of CC to obtain the holy grail of a sleep-through, which I am not expecting for at least another year anyway. I just want to know if (a) this stage is likely to pass, (b) if some other parents had the experience of an LO actually being happier and sleeping better in own cot without CC such that (c) we all might get more sleep that way.
Sorry for the marathon post...and thanks again for any replies.
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RoRoMommy · 09/01/2008 10:30
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