Hi there... Guess I am not the only one with this problem, but any solution I find involves some sort of crying, which I just cannot handle.
Up until 8 month old DS has been getting a bottle, a little song - and then into the cot, where he would soothe himself by singing his own lullaby (which sounded like a broken computer ERROR-ERROR-ERROR...). Ten minute job, no fuss. Then he would sleep through the night, with some occasional crying, easily resolved with some patting and shushing. No night feeds or water.
But for 3-4 months now it's been a nightmare - he screams his head off for ages and would only fall asleep in our arms or lying next to us, and this is after a 2 hour journey through hell. We tried pick up/put down method, but I couldn't listen to him screaming. After the usual routine and putting him in his cot, he would just stand up, hold on to the rails and wail.
On occasional nights he still manages to fall asleep on his own, can't really figure out why.
I think he over-sleeps during the day, as even if at 7 (his usual bed-time) he yawns and rubs his eyes, he wouldn't actually go off before 9. We give up after half an hour of screaming and just bring him to the living room, where he winds down sitting on the sofa next to us, before we take him upstairs. However, trying to move him to one nap was unsuccessful, he becomes tired and cranky at 10:30 am and then again at around 2pm and sleeps nearly 2-3 hours in total during the day (trying to make him nap in his cot is useless as well - he would scream for two-three hours and still fall asleep only in our bed lying next to someone, so after a couple of nightmare days, we just gave up).
He still sleeps through the night (until 630-7) though, and I know it's more than some other people have, but these 2-hour hellish bedtime sessions are being dreaded by all of us, I assume our neighbours inclusive! And I want my evenings back!
Please help, are there any no-crying techniques we overlooked, or any ways to reduce his daytime naps - or at least tell me that it's not going to last forever...
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ponchikon · 13/01/2016 13:54
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