So, 2/3 weeks ago I tried gradual retreat on my then 8.5mo. It was a complete disaaaaaaaahster. I put a pull out bed right by his cot and although he wasn't screaming for the whole time, 2hrs in he was and I gave up and fed him to sleep (which is how he usually falls asleep).
I've decided to take a step back and try again but this time with him in my bed, which is where he sleeps most of the night once I come to bed. My plan is to lie with him til he falls asleep and do this a couple nights before moving to cot/pull out bed scenario. My hope is this will be more gentle/manageable for me him.
BUT he's a crawler so I imagine he'll do a lot of trying to crawl around/off the bed. how can I lie there ignoring him when I have to keep bringing him back from crawling off bed? I think I may actually put mattress on the floor so at least there's no accident risk, but how will this work if I'm supposed to be mostly ignoring him?
I'm not being particularly clear with my question... What would you do? Let him crawl around mattress/room only bringing him back if he cries etc or keep him from crawling off at all? Worried this will turn into a bit of a game though....
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Gradual retreat - the fault in my plan
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Piazzapiola · 17/08/2015 15:23
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