Hi everyone,
So tonight is our first night home with DD who is ahem reluctant shall we say to lay on her back. I spent 3 nights in hospital after a ceserean and we just didn't sleep. She would point blank refuse to lay in the hospital cot, and even once the superhero midwives put her down in it she was only down for about 5 minutes before screaming and I was unable to keep getting her in and out so ended up with her in the hospital bed with me where she wouldn't settle until she was on me. While the other Mums on the ward were happy and able to put their babys down and head for the bathroom I was with my screaming DD who couldnt leave my side or let me even move. She is constantly sucking her hands which I'm finding difficult to know when she's hungry but we're keeping to regular feeds.
Changing nappies, washing and changing are tough, she screams so hard she almost makes herself sick as well as me from stressing so much. Currently she seems unable to be anywhere but right close to you all the time.
Tonight my Mum and DP have spent the night doing shifts so I can get some sleep. They've put the moses basket on the floor, swaddled and put her back down. She's waking every 15 minutes or so. We didn't attempt the cot tonight as it's a big space and thought slowly introducing it might be for the best.
As her Mum when I see her fidgeting or crying I just go to pick her up and soothe her, I seem to have lost the ability to see sense or know what the best thing to do is. I don't want to make a rod for my own back!
Not only did I feel rough when we arrived home yesterday but I also felt sick with fear and questioning my parenting abilities.
So I suppose really I'm just looking for some advice, reassurance or similar experiences if anyone has any, and whether anyone has any tips for encouraging newborns to tolerate lying on their back?
Thanks in advance
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hazel88 · 28/02/2015 05:01
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