Hello fellow sleep seekers! So my almost 7mo decided that, after 20 weeks of sleeping beautifully in her snuzpod, sleeping independently for anything more than 1-2 hours is no longer for her. We moved her into own room at 6 months as we suspected we might be disturbing her, but to no avail...still wakes every hour or so. I usually give up re settling her at around 1-2am and just bring her into bed with me and let her feed back to sleep. Then we all (usually!) get some sleep. We are not totally happy with the situation but it is tolerable. I'm totally to blame for the situation (always rocked/fed to sleep, no established routine until quite recently etc) and have read and fully understood all of the options out there to un-train her into better sleep habits, particularly so called self-soothing techniques. We have allowed her to cry for approximately 5 minutes and bottled it. Tried pick up put down for 2 nights and she just got increasingly hysterical. Tried shush pat...seems to just really piss her off! And so we end up back at square one...feed/rock to sleep and end up in the same bed come 6am. So my question is this: if we just continue to 'go with it' will she eventually improve naturally without us having to inflict some horrendous procedure onto her or will she get worse/stay the same?? People keep telling us that we MUST break these habits now before they become unbreakable. Similarly, people have commented that we are being weak/soft/controlled by her...all very worrying concepts but I'm not entirely sure I buy it. I mean...it just seems natural to me to go to her when she cries...and doing anything which will cause extra crying seems backwards, even if the result is better sleep. So do I do something now...later? Not at all?
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Kangaroo500 · 22/02/2015 23:08
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