My little one has just got to 9 months old and on a good night will wake up 3 to 4 times. On a bad night it will be every hour. He has never self settled and I have no idea how to get him to do it. Although things have improved vastly with his sleeping, (now he is in his cot in his room) it is a real fight to get him to sleep, involving a 20 min bf, walking for about 15 mins then cuddling for a further 20 to 30 mins for him to be asleep enough to put down. If we try before this he wakes up as you lay him down and screams. We have tried leaving him and patting and reassuring, but the screaming can go on for over a hour. He also rocks backwards and forwards and slams his head on the cot and/or kicks off the covers and our house is cold so leaving him is not a option. The big problem is that his screaming seems to have a very strong affect on me so I can only take around 20 mins before I start to break down, even if I am in another room. Several people have told me to leave him to scream, but it really is not a option if I want to keep my sanity. Is there anything else I can try other than controlled crying?
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