Hi this is my first time on here and I hope someone might be able to give me some advice...
My 7.5 month old is a happy, smiley, little boy during the day but at night is so unsettled. He's never slept well but we're now at the stage of 2 hours without waking is a good session.
I don't believe he is waking because he is hungry. I'm breastfeeding and he has one feed during the night, around 2am but he is eating SOOO well during the day, milk and solids. He is active and well-stimulated so he must be tired. He has been better at napping for the last couple of months - he usually has a longer nap in the morning and a shorter nap in the afternoon (in his cot if we're at home or in the car/pushchair if we're out).
All the advice I seem to find says to have a consistent bed time routine, which we have been doing for several months - bath, story, feed, bed around 7.30pm. Then it says put them down in the cot and they'll go to sleep - like it's that easy. We've been working on getting him to go to sleep himself but I won't let him cry it out (the odd time we have tried, he has ended up hysterical). So he goes down half asleep. Hubby and I are sleeping separately (luckily we have a spare room!) and doing half a night each - one of us with the monitor, one in the spare room.
Then the fun starts - he can sometimes wake every 30/45/60 minutes which is so exhausting. Sometimes, all we need to do is pop his dummy back in, but generally he is quite upset and won't settle until he's picked up.
I don't feel like we're doing anything wrong, but equally I feel like I want to try doing something. I know "it'll get better" as I keep being told but I think it's ok to hope that by 7.5 months we might be getting a bit more sleep? Or am I just expecting too much?
Sorry that this is so long, but wanted to give the full story.
Thank you in advance.....
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laurajaneclements · 22/09/2014 12:25
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