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just wondering, as i can't find it.

No, let's start one.

why are you even interested custy? (that's not a snide comment, just wondering why we can't forget about it and get on with enjoying the benefits of MN without worrying about those who want to have their own group?)

Ooh gosh yes let's. It's the very reason I get up in the morning.

well i wish someone would tell me what has hapened abuot it all. i've not been online since forever

Can I just say hun points and royalty points?

Hahahahahahahaha.

I think if there is going to be a thread that should be its topic.

well i hope im well up there with the roaylty points. i have a crown and everything

Agreed Dittany. Everyone who was remotely upset by the whole scam ought to be informed. It changed my perspective immeasurably.

I realise this won't mean much to you as I am incognito. I did this to protect someone else.

I found out today that I was nominated for Moldies and my nomination was turned down. Before, I thought I had simply been overlooked or deemed not important enough. Now I know one or more people actively dislike me. This is infinitely worse.

I don't care if you recognise me, but please don't out me because I only know this because a Moldie told me this was so and she is anxious not to be seen by the other Moldies as having talked.

Oh that's horrid for you. i think it'd finish me off if I knew I'd been actively rejected tbh

although I've no reason to suppose I wasn't

and neither have most of us. Take small comfort in that maybe..

I am very sory to here that Sinking. The more I find out about it the less I think you are missing out on anything special. if someone doesn;t like you and they approve of all the other things this site has done or stands for I would take it as a compliment tbh.

awful sinking, but why would you want to be part of a group like that?

oh sinking thats really shit - I haven't taken much to do with this as I don't really care but that side of it is really pants

Yes for the first time that other place does not look so attractive anymore. Feck the fecker who vetoed me. You have never even met me and yet you deem me someone you don't want to talk to. Fecker.

well i dont know who is moldey and who isn't. i have no idea if i was nominated and rejected or if i was so insignificant i wans't even thought of.

i couldn't really care less

am i the only one who wants to know who is a Moldy? nosy i know but i am way curious about who they are !

am i the only one who wants to know who is a Moldy? nosy i know but i am way curious about who they are !

Stop the madness!!!!

<<Gives Mamazon a Hun point just to see if she cares>>

evil

good for you sinking - fecker that they were

whats a hun point btw?

Well I have certainly revised my opinion of all those posters who have become moldies-and lets just say it is not an upwards revision!

I am sadly coming to the conclusion that there shouldn't be a third thread. Despite people still wanting to talk about it (me included) there are too many people who, instead of just clicking hide come on to have a go. Or to say "grow up and get over it - don't see why you're upset". Even though people like Custy and Sinking have explained over and over again they either don't read those posts or deliberately ignore.
Don't know which is worse - to be mominated and found wanting, or to be overlooked. But I know which happened to me Also, considering the voting only went on for a day or so, they were very busy blackballing during that time, weren't they?

I am glad for you Mamazon, I truly am. I wish I didn't care but the truth of the matter is, I do.

I think the best thing I read on this subject was when someone said that a lot of people on forums such as this are shy or in some way socially inept, so when they get rejected even a virtual rejection, they are the least able people to overcome the hurt they feel. That described me. If you really truly don't care about rejection or being overlooked, then I admire you.

Sinking, you were probably rejected because X or Y didn't actually know you, or Z was having a bad day. Come on, it's hardly a fair or rational system!

I agree - a lot of people just got vetoed because the ones in charge apparently didn't 'know' them personally - from what I can gather.