Please tell me we're not alone. DD starts secondary in Sept and for the past couple of weeks has cried at some point every day - usually set off by something (stubbing toe, lost a game, dreading visit to dentist) but then just sobs and sobs and she has admitted that it's because she is worried about everything changing. She was a bit overwhelmed on the induction day by the size of the school and how small she felt compared to the older girls. She knows six other girls starting Y7, three of which will travel with her, at least to start with, and also knows a couple of Y8s (although not well).
We've practised the journey three times but she refuses to try to do it on her own. I have spent last couple of years trying to make her take steps to being more independent but she still won't do things like walk down to the local shop (10 mins walk) on her own. So think it's partly related to just how independent she is going to have to be.
Any tips, other than trying to get her to articulate her worries and then getting her to think through "what would I do if ..."?
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AliMonkey · 11/08/2016 22:54
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