Our DS has a place at Radley to start in 2017. We, and his headmaster, think it will be a good fit for him. He's sociable, confident, makes friends easily, happy away from home, mature, works hard and loves getting stuck in. He loves and is good at MOST sports and plays a lot during the week and at weekend, happily turning out in all weathers as often as you ask him. He plays football (school B team), a lot of hockey (top team at school - although not saying much as they don't play often - and in top team for out of school club), a lot of cricket (Captain of year at school and hovering around top team of very competitive out of school club), strong tennis player, one of top three sprinters in year. HOWEVER, he does not like rugby. He is fast, so is out on the wing, and he gives it his all. He is not bad at it, but he just doesn't really enjoy it and is (I think) a little bit scared. He hates the contact, or the fear of contact. And he hates hurting people, or the fear of hurting people. It's the only sport ever where he is not keen to do extra training (although does) and is not keen to be in team.
I am sure you can guess my question . . . just how much is the rugby thing going to matter? I would love some up to date first hand knowledge of how it might be for him there. How many terms/years will he have to play for? Will he be teased for not embracing it? To us, it just doesn't seem to be a good enough reason to turn down a place at a great school that would suit him otherwise, but am I wrong? I know it is a MAJOR thing there. Our DS has a place at another school where they play hockey, and no rugby, but it is mixed, weekly boarding and less academic. Radley would be our first choice apart from the whole rugby thing. Can anyone offer any views? His happiness and suitability is obviously our top priority. DS has visited both schools and liked both.
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Coroico97 · 13/01/2016 09:50
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