Eldest has been given a place at our second choice school.
However she missed the cut off on our first choice by only 20 meters. This means that in addition to all her friends from primary heading off to first choice school together, she is also the only child in the neighbourhood who will be at second choice school. This has really hit her hard and although we're all trying to keep positive about the second choice we are considering an appeal (whilst keeping our fingers crossed that there is some movement on the waiting list).
The playground rumour mill tells me an appeal has been won in the past on similar sounding grounds, although in the admissions booklets for the last couple of year it states no appeals have been upheld, I wonder whether this is a case of someone appealing but actually getting a place via the waiting list.
She is a very anxious child in general and finds it hard to make friends. She has recently been referred to a paediatrician for an autism assessment (her brother was recently diagnosed). She's also suffers from stomach issues, likely IBS linked to her anxiety.
The issue is what sort of documentation we would be able to find to back this up. I'm not sure what is on her record at the GP (though she has had lots of testing and medication to deal with the stomach issues over the years I'm not sure anxiety will be mentioned anywhere.)
We should be able to get the referral paperwork from the school nurse, and I think the nurse saw her a couple of years ago around anxiety issues too.
Would letters form her current teacher, and the pastoral support person at school hold any value? Do schools usually write these sort of things??
Does the journey to school have any impact at secondary? First choice school is easy for her to get to, off road cycle route from the end of our drive direct to school and she'll have friends going that way. Second choice school is entirely on a main road with a nasty crossing (need to check if the pavements are cycle ways as several here are). Bus is possible but notoriously unreliable locally.
Gathering evidence to highlight any differences between the two schools is difficult, they are both part of the same academy chain. The policies, websites and prospectus seem to have a lot of copy and paste!.
Any help and advice would be much appreciated, I really don;t know what to do for the best here.
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LaughingHyena · 05/03/2015 10:14
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