My DD has been offered a Year 7 place at St Paul’s Girls’ School and is awaiting results from Henrietta Barnett. In the event she is offered a place at HBS, I was wondering how those in such a position previously chose between the two schools.
DD is highly curious intellectually and enjoys music very much. At the same time, she is naturally shy and emotionally young (neither are criticisms but simply a description of who she is today). We feel that DD could fit in at both schools.
From a commuting standpoint, HBS is closer to where we live but SPGS is not an impossible journey (we are also open to moving if it proves to be so).
Below are some of the issues we are grappling with:
- We would like DD to be at a school with a diverse student population from a socio-economic perspective. In this regard, we are somewhat concerned that SPGS’s fee “policy” (increases in recent years that have put it at the high end of London day schools) may be pricing out many families.
- Does SPGS provide a better education (intellectual stimulation/challenge, catering for individual interests, development of a well-rounded person, etc) compared to HBS that its fees are worth paying? On this, we are genuinely at a loss.
- We are worried about ultra competitive/ambitious parents who could make life unpleasant inside and outside school. During the past year, we came across a few parents who, frankly, frightened us because they appeared willing to go to any length to give their DCs an edge (here, we would also appreciate any advice on how to deal with such parents).
Many thanks.