My 10 yo son has asked to sit the exam for the super selective near us in September. It's the only one in they county and usually has about 1,000 kids sitting the exam for just over 100 places. It's not a grammar area so it's either that school or comprehensives or religious schools. Not sure how far we match the criteria for the church schools and we're quite far away from the comps so in a high birth rate year this may be a problem if they go solely on distance. Risks for whatever option we choose.
Anyway, as son asked to sit the exam for the super selective, we said he could and we'd support him. I spoke to other people and it seems that many parents have been preparing their children for up to two years, practising exam technique etc. With this in mind, we decided to pay out for a tutor 1hr per week from June, despite him being quite bright and pretty much at the top of his class in school.
I'm aware that we're playing catch up to many people. He's good at the non verbal reasoning and maths. His written work is good, but untidy and I think an examiner will struggle to read his answers.
His tutor has said he should now be doing as homework around 3 papers for each Bond book (maths, verbal reasoning, non verbal reasoning and English) per week, plus practicing his handwriting with a piece of writing around a subject set by her. This seems like a lot to me. Is it? Despite me saying a while back that it was all completely up to him, and him saying he knew it was a lot of work, I'm now having to nag him to do the work.
I think the most valuable thing he is getting from the tutor is practicing his handwriting and learning to work to exam timescales. I think it is worth him continuing to go for those reasons. But 12 papers per week plus writing for homework seems a lot. The papers he does at home vary between 95% and 80% generally with the odd few (rushed!) being below. Do those marks indicate he has a "good" chance of getting into a super selective based on the numbers of applicants above? His tutor says he is doing well and does well on the exemplar materials from the super selective. I did ask her to tell me if she thought he may be "square peg, round hole"
In the interests of full disclosure, son had an illness earlier in the year which he has almost entirely recovered from but one of the effects was "fatigue". I'm fairly certain it wouldn't qualify him for SEN or anything, but I'm also conscious of putting a lot of work on him.
I don't know, I'm just having a wobble. I don't want to be making him do all of this work unnecessarily. I'm also worrying whether this volume of work represents the homework he'd be set by the super selective? On the other hand, we're only talking another 4 weeks. Just get on with it?
This is all new to us. DH and I just went to big standard comprehensives.
Thanks in advance for any comments.
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tittifilarious · 26/08/2014 11:26
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