My DS, 16, has given me a lot of grief since we moved in with my boyfriend a few years ago, he has sold and used drugs, come home drunk, been violent, gone missing, been arrested amongst others and this makes me quite ashamed as although I do my best he never cares what I say any more.
To the point, he got excluded from his first school, rated 'Outstanding' by Ofsted for a fight which ended quite badly, but his new school which is an academy in special measures has been hell. He has gotten into about 5 or 6 fights but as there is very little supervision during break and lunch this has gone on without the school knowing. He has had countless detentions and days of isolation, mostly for smoking in the toilets (and by the way I regularly search and confiscate any sort of tobacco or drug related items I find from him and drop conversations about health risks regularly too).
This is the final tether though, him and his mates were messing about in the toilets and each dared the other to boot a cubicle door in and my son got the blame for it being smashed although he won't talk and is currently missing again (he'll be back tomorrow though and I have notified the local police).
Mostly wanted to vent, but has anyone got any suggestions on how I can help my son see that he has more to live for than acting like a prat to spite me?
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natalieeexx · 08/04/2014 23:53
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