Are there any (Head)teachers on here who can give me some advice and guidance- I'd really appreciate it!
I'm trying to get in contact with local secondary schools in my area. I'm trying to write emails to the Headmistress/Headmaster but I am so nervous about doing it that I'm not actually getting them done, just sat staring at the screen in terror! :(
I'm really stuck. There are two things I would like to do. I'd like to run some focus groups with parents, and I'd also like to trial a workshop with the teenagers and their teachers, so I can measure its effectiveness. But the important part is to get to talk to the parents.
I can't work out the best way to broach this in the email at all!
I'm finding it really difficult to communicate that very British problem of:
"I really believe in this and would like to share it with you
-but I don't want to be too pushy and rude
-but I also want you to understand that I'm really passionate about this
-but I also don't want you to think that I'm some kind of over-jealous freaky obsessive
-so I'm going to be casual
-BUT NOT TOO CASUAL I want to be taken seriously
-I'm not trying to waste your time, I know you are very busy and important
-and I know your curriculum is already stuffed to bursting
-and I don't have any qualifications in this field, but you do, so please don't think I'm trying to undermine your job, that's not the intention at all
-and I'm not trying to sell you anything
-but I'm not some terrifying evangelical do-gooder either!!
-so maybe I just won't ever write this email, bye bye!"
and round and round we go.
Is there anybody on here who could give me some advice as to how to word a short, polite, "here is a thing I'd love to discuss with you" kind of email which would actually be of interest to a Headteacher that doesn't make me sound like a creep/salesperson/weirdo? This idea communicates so much better in person, over coffee, because I can read the person's face and adjust the "pitch" accordingly. Over an impersonal email, all I'm imagining is the Head screwing up her face in offended disgust and putting the folder straight in the trash bin.
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Too Terrified To Talk To Teacher, really would appreciate help.
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