He's been in tears about it tonight. His best friend went with him to secondary but has now made more friends(they were inseparable friends for years in primary, once they finally made friends in year 3). He is eating his lunches on his own, outside.
When they had to choose partners at a wellbeing day last week, he had to go with the teacher.
I've suggested choir as he likes singing, but apparently its closed to new members (and he's been too scared to go before now).
I've suggested he goes to the special needs room as they have a bolt hole there, but he is too scared to go in on his own. He's worried there will be noone from his year there, so he still won't be able to make friends.
He was so enthusiastic for the first week or so, and now he is fading away again, like when he started primary and completely lost his self esteem and had to be home-edded for a year to get it back.
I've already had to contact the school as he is having massive panic attacks about bringing the right books in and out of school. They are very helpful but I don't want to come across as a complaining mother! I know they can't help him make friends, but would they be able to help in some way?
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Year 7 with Aspergers struggling to make friends
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Tiggles · 25/09/2013 20:41
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