DS has always been a bit so-so in school, never brilliant but usually ok. In secondary he started to do better and seemed keener but from yr 10 it all went downhill. In the end he did worse than expected with a b, 3 Cs, 2 Ds, an E and an F. I am still reeling tbh. I was academic and I am struggling to cope with this. H tells me I need to get a grip, it's Ds' life and exams aren't everything. I know logically he is right but the panic keeps creeping back. He has a place to do furniture making and design with a view to making instruments eventually but I am just so worried he won't make any effort and that will all fall by the wayside and he'll be left with nothing. I feel as if he's flying on a wing and a prayer. DS seems keen and excited but I don't know if that will last.
He is only in college 3 days a week so he needs to find some work for the rest of the time. Just don't know where to start. At his age I was starting a levels with a solid set of O's under my belt and planning to go to university.
Can anyone talk me down. Please!!
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OrmirianResurgam · 31/08/2013 22:51
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