DS started secondary school in Sept and at first he started off working so hard on his homework and in school, eager to to his best, we had a glowing report from all his teachers at the first parents evening saying how focussed he was. He's working at levels 6 for maths and science and doing making good progress on all other subjects. However, since he's established new friendships (he didn't know anyone when he first started the school) it's all changed. It's a real struggle to get him to sit down and complete his homework properly, he often says his friends aren't bothering, they'll either copy from others or get a detention instead rather than do the homework! I've suggested he try and widen his circle of friends and get to know others that are working hard as this is going to be positive for him. He says those kids are annoying and not the kind he'd like to be friends with. He's always been a bit of a follower but now getting worried as he seems to be surrounding himself with friends who, although they are streetwise don't seem to have any strict guidelines from home as far as homework is concerned and it's now becoming a real challenge to enforce this at home. I know you can't choose their friends but I wish I could!!!
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DS has really changed since starting secondary school!
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jus3351 · 07/03/2013 14:44
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