We are having major issues with my step son (who does not live with us), we have just found out he has been refussing to go to school and bunking off, his mother has had warnings and fines to pay as he spends more time at home than school. I year ago dh went to his parents evening and was told to expect dss to acheive A's and B's in his GCSE's if he gets his head down and goes to school every day (he had had a lot of time off due to throat infections). DSS has now given up, has got into the wrong croud, is in trouble with the police and is hardly going to school. We susspect he has Dyslexia (the school mentioned it a while ago but no one pushed for a dx, we thought his mother would have looked into it as well as the school). He's now almost 16 and due to sit his GCSE's next spring. We are now at the point where dh or i will have to go to his mothers house and drag him out of bed to get him to school (which we are willing to do if we have too), his mother leaves for work early leaving dss to sort himself out (which usually means he doesn't bother getting up).
He's just not trying at all and has given up , is there any alternitive for him? of does he (by law) have to sit his GCSE's? I know its very important that he tries to sit them and does well (god, i would do anything to make him).
I have told dh to phone the school tomorrow and see if theres anything we can do to help him get back on track but its so hard when he just doesn't care.
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Does a child have to sit GCSE's is there any alternitive?
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Marne · 22/11/2011 20:33
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