My son has tutoring once a week at the library after school with a uni student 3.30pm-6.30pm. She is very nice girl. He has been getting tutored for one month. I drop him off at the library 3.25pm and pick him up at 7pm. I dont go inside but i wait outside the library in the car as i have babies with me. So i only have met her once on the very first day of tutoring. Payment is sent in a envelope with my son.
Okay now i have a couple of problems with her and i dont know how to communicate it with her because i might say it the wrong way and hurt her feelings. Can you pls let me know how to say it to her in a nice way? also what is your views on it?
1> I give my son food when he goes for tutoring and she has been eating it with him. He says he hides it and she says "whats in ur bag" "what did you get for food today" and she says " can i have some", "what else do u have"
He reckon she eats at least half his food.
The first time i thought it happened i thought, thats okay to share and maybe she is being friendly. Then the 2nd time i thought maybe her mum didnt give her food and she is hungry. Then the 3rd time i thought hmm something is weird here. Today i got upset thinking what the hell is going on.. My son said thats okay mum i just wont eat while she is tutoring me.
2> She gives homework for my son and the first and 2nd time was a good amount of homework, now the last couple of times its so little that he finishes it in one night. I mentioned last week that my other younger son gets more homework that my 13 year old.
3> She was suppose to finish at 6.30pm and she finished at 6.15pm. 15minutes early.
She doesnt tell me at all when she finishes. I want her to message me to let me know what time she is finished. I feel she can take advantage of me as its all based on trust. I never know if she has finished early or late.
Now what do u think of this? How can i let her know how i feel in a nice way.
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Problem with my 13 year old sons tutor?
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pomegranate1975 · 01/08/2011 12:06
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