I posted on here a few days ago about a young gay lad at college who I had befriended. I gave him my number to help him with college work and he proceeded to call me 6 times in one night, sent texts etc, referred to himself as my stalker and then sent another text at 10.40pm asking if I was still up.
DH was not impressed and started getting a bit irate about it. General concensus was that DH was being paranoid and I had nothing to worry about.
I am now however starting to agree with DH. On saturday he called me twice and on sunday he called me 9 times in one day. First few I answered, but then I started ignoring the calls.
He then sent me a jumbled up text messaage that made no sense at all so I text back saying "what??" and he phoned me back - I answered the phone and he completely denied sending me a text saying it couldn't have been him as he was asleep!! He then read the text back to me and said "what?? eh?? who the hell wrote that cos it wasn't me?/ I dont even understand what it says!" he then kept me chatting for ages.
Ok - my concerns are:
Why is he sending texts and then denying sending them?
He's supposed to be severely dyslexic - so how come 50% of his texts come to me almost unreadable and the other half are perfect English with not so much as a spelling mistake???
He kept trying to get my address last night. Now this bit really concerned me because he asked me where abouts in C I lived. I've never told him I lived in C. I gave a brief "behind the uni" answer and he then said "oh, you mean around (Street a)?" I said yes. He said "kind of near (street B)?" it just so happens my old address was directly in the middle of street a and b. You could NOT guess this. So it sounds to me like he has both my current and my old address. How?? He did let it slip that he knows someone in the office at college ...
So what do you reckon? did I make a mistake and is he a complete nut? He's also changed his entire career direction and is now doing EXACTLY the same as me.
He wasn't even enrolled on the course until last week, it finished this week so he's been turning up to classes when he wasn't even on the course.
Why do his texts look like they are being written by two different people and he denies sending some of them?
DH has come to the conclusion that he has a split personality and is a danger. What do you reckon?
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Paranoid or potential stalker?
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SantaCruise · 21/06/2010 10:55
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