Posted this on another thread but thought I'd give it it's own thread as I'm really bothered by it.I was doing okay following the break up marriage due to OW. He's moved out and we're divorcing. I know very little about the events leading up to his leaving between him and OW and I prefer it that way.
But had a phone call yesterday from a churchy "friend" who's just heard about our split. I said there was an OW.
She said "oh, is that the girl he goes jogging with?" She's been abroad since before the split and has seen him jogging with the OW before she went and hadn't bloody told me. Don't know when she saw them or how often but feel really sick.
All sounds innocent as if she has sort of forgotten, but I'd often talked of how he enjoyed jogging on his own, so she must have known something was up.
She's not a good friend just a "churchy friend"-she's actually going to a prison in a few days time, to see a church member whose been put away for 14 years for being a paedophile as she's so all forgiving....think I'm gonna puke. This woman speaks at 100 miles an hour and is really hard to understand, so at least the paedo will get to suffer when she visits him.
Her daughter and mine are good friends, hence the friendship, I speak with her at least once a week.
She started to go on and on about the church, I'm not going anymore as it's full of hypocrites as far as I'm concerned.
Why does this bother me so much? Is it coz she knew before I did that something might be going on? Is it that she gave no thought to how I would feel on hearing this? Is it because I regret telling her anything at all as she'll forgive him as she's so all-forgiving?
Can't really pinpoint why I am so bothered, but I do feel angry towards her.
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Not told re ex dh jogging with OW-feel weird
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SpiritualKnot · 03/05/2010 09:49
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