So, DH didn't snore when we met. He now does, and we're talking house shaking volumes.
I have worn ear plugs for the last 10 years, but when we had DC I couldn't do that and hear them in the night. Going without ear plugs would have meant no sleep at all.
Fine when we just had one, DH slept in the spare room, not ideal but worked as a short term solution. I am a SAHM and so had full responsibility for all the night time feeds etc. DH absolutely did not want to be disturbed.
When DD was born we lost our spare room (3 bed house) so DH ended up sleeping downstairs on a sofa bed and then that broke so he slept on the sofa, definitely not ideal. DH has arthritis in his knees and hips but still felt he got more sleep on the sofa than he would have done waking up with DD and I certainly did, although I can still hear him snoring.
Anyway DD is now sleeping nicely and DH wants very much to sleep in our bed again. I have no problem with this at all. I will wear earplugs and on the rare occasions the children wake up he will hear them and can wake me.
Fine. Except that DH likes to sleep with 2 pillows, this makes his snoring much louder. When I wake up I can tell without looking at him whether he has one or two pillows. I have tried to talk to him about this but he won't listen, tells me that it makes no difference - it does.
This ended in an argument last night and him storming off to sleep on the sofa.
I have just tried to discuss it again and he told me that he wants a divorce. He called me a cunt bitch, nice.
So, sanity check required, am I being unreasonable to ask him to sleep with 1 pillow so that I stand a chance of getting some sleep or am I a 'controlling bitch'?
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Is snoring really going to end my marriage?
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mrslurkalot · 26/04/2010 21:46
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