My Dh has a painful, degenerative (incurable but not life threatening) condition (diagnosed quite reecently). We have a 2 yr old DS. He has become so angry lately; I know he is struggling with pain, fatigue and fear (understandably) but his temper is awful, shouting at me and DS. I feel I am walking on egg shells. We have been together 13 years and I love him very much but feel I am losing him. He won't go for counselling or support groups (together or individually), rarely discusses it and says I blame too much on the condition when it is me/something else (i.e. not his illness). I know he's afraid but I can't help him. I am sacrificing my self esteem, confidence and parenting beliefs trying to help, support and sometimes placate him, and it can't go on. Where can I go from here? I don't suppose there are any answers but I don't want to elave him and can't do that to him.
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outofmysystem ·
25/04/2010 13:08
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