my friend is married with 2 kids under 10. She is in love with someone else, but scared to break away from her life (she's not financially independent). Her dh has found out about the affair which has been going on for about 18 months. He's really angry, but prepared to work it out. She doesn't really love him.
What I want to know is, do you think she should try and resurrect her old "boring" life or should she leave if she's so unhappy. Her DH is a nice guy but she's just not in love with him any more.
I would be really interested to know what MN thinks...I'm in a similar situation (this is not me..honest!) and have my own views but don't really know what to say to this woman.
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Fizzfiend · 03/04/2010 23:30
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