I've got this friend, known her a little over a year, we get on really well. Trouble is I've noticed that she's nice to everyone, in a friendly, polite, always willing to help way. And the trouble part is, sometimes afterwards she'll complain about having had to help someone.
Now, I can see she's somewhere picked up this need to make things all lovely for people, but I'm starting to see it as dishonesty, and I'm wondering if she's talking about me behind my back. I'm wary of taking any of her time with anything because she can't seem to say no, even when she wants to.
I'm trying to work through it, because she is a truly lovely, intelligent, funny person, but I'm having a bit of a trust problem.
Any comments to throw in the mental mill?
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ConfusedByHumans · 21/03/2010 22:07
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