Don't know if anyone has any experience of this....my 9 yr old dd has been having a few problems for a while, divorced from her dad and remarried and she's been a bit upset abot things. We were really getting to grip with it all but recently she started asking questions about the facts of life (turns out there is a lot of talk going on at school and some of the kids are REMARKABLY well informed!) So.....answered all her questions, got her a book, tried to make it all sound as normal as possible etc etc. Problem is now she is convinced me and dh are at it all the time and throws herself in our path whenever she can to put a spanner in the works, gets up out of bed etc. Asks rather personal questions about us which I've told her are private. Even when I knwo she's asleep I now can't relax in case she wakes up. Suppose it's good that she can talk to us but hadn't been prepared for this - I never thought my parents were at it when I was her age so a bit shocked she just assumed it was something we do...wish now I had just lied and said sex is just for making babies or not for oldies like us but subscribed to honesty is best policy...any advice appreciated, feeling rather low and want to make her feel better about it all but also need a bit of privacy with dh every now and then!!!!
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