Am livid with DH for a number of reasons but just hating the fact that he's turning me into a moaning nag so trying to vent here instead and see if it helps.
Background- 7 yrs together, 2 DC am currently on mat leave about to return to work and getting increasingly annoyed about all the tasks I do while he considers it okay to watch hours of rugby of a weekend.
He has had the two kids for max one hour alone since DD arrived and my only day off in 7 months was because my lovely mum and dad had the kids.
He's a loving father and partner and in some ways I know I'm very lucky (and I tell him) but I know he's lucky too (and never hear this or any compliments on the kids, house, admin etc).
I know the subdivision of jobs is always female loaded but I constantly feel angry that he doesn't do more.
He's never ever packed for the kids for holidays or overnighters and has to be asked for every single little job to be done. The balance of power is odd as I'm at home now in mat leave but I've lost perspective on what is normal... How much do your husbands do/ don't do????
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Facebookaddict · 24/01/2010 17:41
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