Hello
I'm new to mumsnet (class myself as a stepmum although we're not married) and I feel I need people to talk to who may be in a similar situation.
I have been with my partner for 16 months. He and his wife separated 1 year before we got together and my DP was living at his mums. We now live together.
When we first got together he told me he was no longer married. I found out he meant 'separated but still married' a while later. Divorce proceedings only started 8 months ago.
I've goined 2 step kids, 1 boy 6 and 1 girl 8. We have them here twice a week, more during holidays.
Thats basically my situation. I'd like some advice and people to chat too about it.
Sometimes i feel so upsset about having his kids over, they remind me of the life and love he used to have and sometimes it brings me to tears and I have to make myself scarce. Other times we have a great time.
We plan to marry and have our own family but I keep thinking it won't be the same as he's already done the whole marriage and kids thing.
Am I being stupid?? any shared thoughts and feelings are greatly apreciated.
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MissLaRue · 19/01/2010 11:21
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