DH snogged a work colleague weeks ago and i am having real difficulty moving forward- I want to but just can't! It's driving me mad.
He is very sorry and is trying do hard to make things right. We went to see counsellor last week & initially I felt better but now I feel worse. I can't help but wonder about everything. What if I hadn't found out?- would it have become an affair. I hate the fact he sees her every day & this won't change. I know she wanted more & kept texting him after I found out even though she knew I was so angry. He told her it was wrong & wouldn't happen again.
I know from Reading other posting that many of you have been through worse betrayals but I am heartbroken. This has shaken me to the core & my dh is not who I thought he was. I can't believe this has happened & so want it to go away.
I trust few people anyway but always trusted my dh. Now I feel I will never trust him again. He works in a highly stressful workplace with a drinking culture so can I really expect him to never go out again. This colleague is always there on nights out too.
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Sunshine2 · 18/01/2010 11:14
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