Hi,
I'm not necessarily looking for any answers on here, i guess i just need to vent but any advise or criticism would be appreciated!!
I've been seeing my partner for 3 months but we work together so i have known him for 3 years.
It's safe to say he is an amazing guy who i adore and have fallen for hook line and sinker. He is everything i could wish for and more. The only problem is trust. Now i know that however confident and laid back people perceive me to be, i am very insecure and can't believe my luck that this man is now in my life. Which is why i'm convinced that however much i think he does care about me, he doesn't necessarily feel the same way i do.
It doesn't help that he is still living with his ex-partner - who is very much just an ex but they are still friends who are living together for financial reasons and will be selling the house from March.
He has been very open about his life and how this whole situation and other issues are making this a very painful time for him but that he is so pleased that i am in his life.
We spend a lot of time together and he is very good to me but i just can't get this niggling feeling out of my head.
Today we have spoken a few times on the phone and at about 7ish he was visiting a relative and said he would call me again in an hour..... that was nearly 4 hours ago!
Now his timing is bad, he will say he will meet me at one time and has been up to 2 hours late before because he has lost track of time or something has stood in the way of him leaving on time!
Am i being precious or does anyone understand how upsetting this is?
I see it as broken promises??
Do i need to just chill out?
Thanks
B
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Insecurity and trust or am i too precious!!!
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babybuttercup · 11/01/2010 22:53
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