DH and I are both on holliday and I usually get up with our DS in the morning. Last night I asked DH if I could have a lie in as I usually go to bed early and if I was going to stay up for new year I knew the morning would be painful. He said yes and promised he would so I stayed up and we had a great night.
Morning comes and he doesn't get up and I have to. This happens a lot. He is very bad at getting up in the morning. It used to make me feel angry when he did it but I don't have the energy for that now.
I don't know if it is the sort of thing I should just let go - it's not that important in the scheme of things. On the other hand it just feels really disrespectful to promise me something then not bother to do it. I would never dream of doing that to him. Also his sense of entitlement pisses me off - he always seems to think that he is the most tired and therefore should get to sleep and DS is my responsibility first. I did tell him once that it makes me feel horrible when he does stuff like this but it hasn't made any difference.
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chocolatestar · 01/01/2010 08:50
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