My Dad is sulking with me as I've borrowed/been given money by my DMum.
I'm expecting a baby and asked my Mum if there was any chance they could help pay off a car loan before the baby came (Background to this is that they have given my DSister a great deal of money to help with her house which they are not expecting back).
Mum did seem pleased to be asked (though I found it very embarrassing) and said of course it would be better to have the money now then in however many years time. This was a few months ago - and I've now found out that my dad is angry and sulking with me because I didn't ask him as well. He's now not visiting me which is upseting me. All this has really annoyed my DH who will be very upset on my behalf if my Dad doesn't visit when the baby arrives. I thought that my Mum would speak to my Dad before agreeing to this - and I do find my Mum easier to approach especially about something like this.
I'm tempted to ignore my Dad's sulk (I hate sulking) and let him get over it in his own time but then if he doesn't visit DH has said he won't be welcome in our house ever again.
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allthemorestollenforme · 14/12/2009 10:30
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