Hi all. I wondered if anyone could help clear my head - give me some advice - tell me if I'm wrong. I'm feeling really fed-up with my relationship situation. My husbands ex-wife, with who he has a child, I think is in contact just too often. I know they have to be in contact and I don't have a problem with that. However they do see each other twice a week on pick up and drop off days but there also are texts pretty much everyday from his ex. Yes each time they are about their child but it seems she has something new to text about each day. I tried to speak to him to say, I didn't think it was quite necessary and couldn't he speak to her saying that anything important or that couldn't wait, to get in touch fine but if it wasn't urgent etc couldn't it be something they discussed when they saw each other. The thing is I've always been fair, I even agreed to a double christening when my son was christened with their son because he wanted to be christened too and we all stood there together, when we went on our honeymoon both children came and phone calls to her and regular texts(ended up being everyother day - I still thought that was excessive but left it) to say step son was ok were agreed. I just don't think that they need to be in contact so often over things that can be discussed when they meet. Bearing in mind this is on the back end of the usual ex agro - criminal damage, letters, name calling....so much to go on about can't even be bothered to mention it . What has upset me the most though is that when I've spoke to my DH about this he says he can't see the problem and I always end up feeling like a jealous girlfriend, he dismisses my feelings or for me to be able to talk it through with him. Am I wrong???
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