Hi all,
I've namechanged for this. Hope that's ok!
Ok. Here's the thing. I have a good friend who married her husband earlier on this year. Just days after the marriage he attempted suicide after an argument. He took pills and alcohol and was only found by luck in time (genuine attempt - he had left a note too). He was released from hospital a couple of days later, and the following day threatened again.
My dh went to help our friend as she was beside herself. Dh managed to get him taken into hospital but he was released again just hours later.
They seemed to be coping with this, and he was seeing a therapist. However, after seeing him get a text from another wonam last week, our friend has now discovered that her husband has been collecting what she terms "nasty" porn, he has been on dating websites, receiving emails into secret accounts from women, getting texts and has met two of them. He claims not to have had sex with them.
I think she asked him to leave, but he basically said he would kill himself. We know it's not an idle threat.
Obviously this can't go on, she can't stay in a marriage like this, so how does she do it without feeling guilty if he did do something? Is there an organisation I can recommend to her?
Other than the usual things like offer our help, I don't know what to do for her.
Thanks in advance.
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tryingtobegoodfriend · 21/09/2009 13:07
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