Hi,
Need a bit of advice, as there is a situation which i don't really understand.
i've been friends with this one friend for ages. she's a year older. we are both only children. she always used to persuade me to come out with her friends.
i've been 'friends' with her friends for years. we all went our separate ways for uni and then a while ago we all got back in touch and started meeting up again.
there is one girl in the group who my friend seems to have had a funny relationship with. my friend seems to be jealous over this girl's success with boys.
anyway, this girl kept asking me out for a drink, and i kept trying to say, let's meet up us four girls (me, new girl, old friend and one other). my old friend kept cancelling, so one day i just saw the new girl on my own as neither of us were doing anything.
it was nice.
when i next saw my old friend she was absolutely furious. and she also said that she thought it was out of order for this girl to get in contact with me. that this girl had caused trouble in the past. and that none of her other friends would contact me.
i'm really upset and confused. i feel like i've been wasting my time hanging around with her friends if i'm not allowed to actually be friends with them.
does anyone have any insight into this???
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jealous friend - confused as to what to do. please help!!!!
wheniwishuponastar · 19/09/2009 09:57
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