have name changed for this...for usual reasons.
Db confessed last night at a family dinner...
he sat and told us that he rugby tackled DS-in-law to the ground in a car park after a night out.He was kicking her in ribs and when she was down he punched her in the face.
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He is blaming drink, she is blaming herself..saying its not his fault and that he feels bad....WTF?
I told him he's a fool ,how could he hurt her?
He knows exactly what he's done ,and quite matter of fact says he has no idea why he did it.
Her son (previous relationship) , went mental and kicked the shit out off DB.... i totaly understand why.DB thinks he has broken wrist, its swolen twice size and he cant move fingers...(serves him right). So now DB is hiding at the in-laws , afraid to go home.
I cant believe he's getting mum and dad's back up for this... its sickening.
i dont want anything to do with him now, but D-sis-in-law has forgiven him, and wants us to do the same. i dont think i can... ex-h used to hit me.
They both are saying this is the first time, that it wont happen again.... i said that too once.
I dont know what to do, i want to claw his eyes out and help her get rid of him. Im so ashamed of my family now.
His ex-dp said he hit her too,he said she hit him. I feel i hate him now, that he's a liar and an abuser and cant be trusted.
My poor DSis-in-law...she's in agony , and is taking painkillers and anti-inflamatory meds for her rib injuries.No police are involved- she doesnt want to tell them.
How can i help her? what if he does it again?
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db has just confessed to hitting ds-in-law.
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