me and dp are going through a very rough patch which has been going on for a few months now. we have nearly split up a couple of months ago but we have both agreed to give it another go and try to make things work
he is very stressed with work, and life in general and he says that im supposed to be the good happy thing in his life but im not anymore.
out the blue a couple of months ago he told me he couldn't do it anymore and was gunna pack his stuff, but after hours of crying and cuddling he just couldn't go. (we dont live together but he has some of his stuff at mine)
anyway, since then i cant feel the same about him or us anymore as i know how he feels about me and us. he says he still loves me but he's just not happy with the way things are.
these last couple of months has made me see that im not happy with things either. i dont know if its how i really feel, or just cos we nearly broke up its making me feel this way.
ive not seen him for more than 5 mins since the wednesday before last as he's off work with his kids so been busy, and im not sure i really miss him that much.
i love him and care about him a lot but dont know if im in love with him. and i feel that he cares more for me as a friend and someone to talk to as an outlet than an actual girlfriend
i dont know what to do. i dont want to leave him and later realise it was the wrong thing to do
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juicychops · 21/08/2009 19:42
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