Some of you may have read my previous posts, four months ago my husband of 6 years decided he no longer wanted me and his 2 year old daughter, he had an emotional affair after I had PND and he decided our marriage couldn't be saved?
So, we have rented our house, I've packed it all up and move my stuff to my parents house 300 miles away next week, we (me and DD) will live with them for the time being until I get myself sorted out. I've given up my well paid job, left my friends and wonderful colleagues behind and a lovely house and actually feel OK about it all now as I've got my head around it!
However, I think he has changed his mind!! I've lost weight, have been going out, look quite good, have stopped crying, asking him to change his mind, been nice to him and stopped nagging so all in all we have been getting on quite well, especially as we have had to live in the same house!!
He has been complimenting me all the time, asked me for a shag the other day (were in separate bedrooms, I didn't by the way), he asked me if I still love him and fancy him (I do) and now he has decided he can't bear to be away from our daughter (understandable) and is going to move to be nearer to us and change Police forces? I am really happy with this as I want him desperately to be part of our daughters life and see her everyday, BUT he is making rumblings about us getting back together! WTF .... he could have stopped all this happening four months ago when I asked him to go to Relate and he refused!!
So my question is, what is he playing at and can you ever go back?? Part of me thinks we should try again, but then part of me thinks I might actually like being just the two of us, in a little house, part time job, just me, her and a cat!! Or is that selfish?
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Just as I'm about to move 300 miles away he has changed his mind!!! Opinions please?
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mummytowillow · 02/07/2009 21:57
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