I have a slight issue with accepting gifts/help.
Yes odd I know but it's becoming a bit of an issue between DP and myself.
With parents (especially my mother) who are best, disinterested in my life, I have learnt over the years not to expect anything and to be completely independant.
Today I wanted to buy some shoes, Christ knows why as I am a complete shoe whore and have over 50 pairs already, but realised that Ds needed new clothes so I spent on him instead.
In a general 'how is you day going' chat with DP I mentioned that I didn't get my shoes and he said that He'd buy them for me and anything else that grabs my attention (within reason).
Almost immediately I started making excuses of having too many pairs and that I really didn't like them ( I LOVE THEM!)
Why, oh why, can I not just accept that someone occasionally wants to buy me something without a reason or agenda behind it?
And why do I have to be so pig headed about accepting help and make out that I can cope when I clearly can't?
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PersonalClown · 12/06/2009 18:05
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