DP has said he wants me to change. I need to stop being 'arsey' (have had a year of PND and then a MC last month). I need to stop thinking about myself (even my doctor told me I need to START making time for myself.)
I said you can't go in to a relationship to change someone or that someone's not for you. He accused me of trying to finish with him and said he will 'just have to live with it' if I won't change. I said no one should go through life like that. He said I'm trying to push him away.... and a few other things that I will add if I remember (sorry to drip feed but I'm upset and not really thinking properly).
What now?
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DP wants me to change.
TotallyAndUtterlyPaninied · 19/05/2009 20:50
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